Monday, May 11th, was a finish things kind of day. I finished my Blog for the previous week. I finished Emelia's Christmas afghan. Her favorite colors are pink and purple. In the evening, Claude and I watched the third Lord of the Rings Extended movie. Whew!
In the afternoon, Claude and I drove to Lexington to buy yarn for the last two afghans I need to crochet for Christmas. Nelson's will be red, white and blue. Raelyn's will be blue. I will make Nelson's next. Since there is frequent change of color in the yarn, this one will take longer. After purchasing yarn, we treated ourselves to dinner at A&W.
Tuesday, May 12th, I was anxious to work in Sandiland. I had things that needed a home, all that yarn for one. This led to me cleaning out the three drawers of yarn I have in the closet. It felt good to go through the yarn. I keep each skein in a plastic bag. For years, the yard was put in the drawer, the ends of the yarn would pull out and get tangled. I finally figured out I could put it in ziplock bags that I could see through and it was not quite as hard to manage. This time in cleaning, I found a couple of small bags of yarn that were the same type of yarn and color that I could put into a bag with a more full skein of yarn. I love neat things. My yarn drawers are neat again.
I mailed a card to Hayden. I have been having a prompting to send him a card with a bit of money in it. He is working so hard are his movie education and the prompting was strong. I had $40 that I put in a card and mailed to him. Then I sent him a text to watch for it in the mail. He was happy. Follow promptings. They won't lead you astray.
I also worked on The Drive for September and walked my treatmill.
Claude was busy doing yardwork. I went out to join him. I realized my ivy that I placed on a table between the two Adirondack chairs was burning from the sun. I moved it to a plant stand on the patio where it will be a bit more protected by the shade. The plant on that stand was ivy we had tried to grow on the hill. The bits that lived I put in an old flower pot. They were thriving. I moved that pot to the table between the Adirondack chairs. We will see how that works.
Claude and I gathered items to donate to the young men for their garage sale. We took them to the church in the evening where the boys were collecting things. We went to eat at Taco Bell. After coming home, it wasn't long before my tummy was not well. Sure enough, I hurled my Taco Bell. Ugh! I would wait until later and have a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. That seemed to stay down just fine. Go figure.
In the evening, I started crocheting on Nelson's afghan. This is not a hard pattern but it will be time consuming with the changing colors of yarn throughout the project.
Hayden posted this picture on Instagram. It is his movie and is in post production.
Wednesday, May 13th, Claude had PT in the morning. They have added more challenging exercises. He came home exhausted.
I spent a lot of my day going through the National Park Service website making notes for The Drive this September. They have a who section on Lewis and Clark and it is divided into states. I made it through all the states (there are a lot) and not must sort those those notes for what we will see possible and what to disregard.
I managed to hurl again. This time after having my lunch of Greek yogurt and two dates. Hmmm...not good.
I did walk the treadmill.
My evening was spent crochet on Nelson's Christmas afghan.
Thursday, May 14th, we started our morning at Johnson's Funeral Home for training in pre-planning for your funeral. This is something we have wanted to get going on and haven't yet done. Going to training seemed like a gift to get us going. Johnson's Funeral Home took care of my parents funerals. I knew we would use them when the time came. So grateful they set up this training. It was good, to the point, great checklists, and the opportunity to sign up to get the particulars going. We left with a 9am appointment on Friday to get our plan together. Hallelujah!
After the training, we went for a biscuit. This gave us time to talk about the plan after the training. We have had these talks many times but this time it was in preparation for the real sit-down on Friday morning.
When we got home, I started typing up the items on the big checklist. Claude laid down for a nap.
I got a message to us from Katelyn at 1:42pm. She wanted us to keep Joel in our prayers. She was concerned his jaw was dislocated from a fall on playground monkey bars. I immediately placed Joel's name on the temple prayer roll and assured Katelyn we would keep in and their family in our prayers.
By 2:23 they had ordered a CT and and x-ray. Drew finally got hold of Drew. She made contact with the bus driver who agreed to keep Raelyn on the school bus until Millie was on the school bus so both girls would get home at the same time. She assured me Joel was only moving his jaw when he would ask for Taco Bell. Little did he know it would be some days before this could happen. Katelyn sent us this picture of Joel.
About 3pm, Katelyn sent the report from the scan and x-ray. Our boy had a "serious jaw fracture". The next step could be surgery. Katelyn gave me permission to post this on our family Facebook page so we could all send love, prayers and good vibes there direction. Somewhere during all this, Katelyn managed to set up a priesthood blessing for little Joel. Hallelujah.By this time, Joel had been to urgent care first. Then to the ER at a Muskegon hospital. Now they wanted him to go to Grand Rapids. Joel only wanted to go home and eat. Katelyn was pretty sure he had not eaten since dinner the night before. The ambulance driver came and away he went to Helen DeVos Children's Hospital in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Drew would drive their van. Katelyn would ride in the ambulance. The assessment by Devos was they might no do surgery. They would do nothing that night. This hospital is all about pediatric care. Muskegon didn't have anything like this. They had a Ronald McDonald house nearby where Katelyn and Drew could stay while Joel slept through the night.
Friday, May 15th, Katelyn called in the morning. Our appointment was at 9am. We were able to chat with her before this appointment and assured her she could call or text as needed even with us in a meeting. Katelyn found a fidget toy for Joel to play with so he wouldn't play with is IV.
About 11:46 Katelyn said they were taking him back for surgery. They would makTe a small incision inside his mouth. They would but the "floater" bone back into place and hope that nature would help it heal. They put four eyelet hooks on four teeth in the bite area, 2 on the top and two on the bottom. Then they used orthopedic bands like braces to hold them shut. This will allow his 4-year old mouth to continue to grow. It also lets him speak and use a straw and be able to eat soft foods. The surgery would last 1-3 hours depending on what they found as they went into the surgery.
About 3pm, we got this picture with the update that Joel was out of surgery and they were getting ready to take him back up to his room. I was most happy to see he had his Paw Patrol stuffed animal by his side.
I set to work ordering soft food through Amazon to be delivered on Saturday. When you are far away, this helps you feel like you are doing something physical to help.
At 5:46 we got this updated picture of our boy sitting up playing with a phone. Drew's mother came to visit. Drew went back home to Muskegon with them. He would handle Joel's three sisters and Katelyn would stay with Joel.
At 9:30pm we got this picture of Joel eating. He didn't get his beloved Taco Bell but he was happy with his Italian ice. He also had some beef broth which he downed after it cooled a bit. They would give him more Motrin and he would sleep for the night. Katelyn would stay in his room and sleep, as best she could, he a chair by his bed. 
Let me go back to 9am. Claude and I with Roger Brown at Johnson's Funeral Home. He took all the important personal data needed to fill out death certificates, post obituaries in the newspapers we would want, and create an account with the insurance company that would hold our funds to cover our caskets, vaults, etc. We discussed the type of funeral we wanted and whether to have a viewing or not. The end decision was Claude and I both want a graveside service. We would like to have a quick family viewing at the funeral home for about 30 minutes as the family gathers to go to the funeral. We want a family pizza party the night before with family and close friends and/or possible a lunch after the funeral with family and close friends. We want to keep it low-key.
Roger took us back to look at caskets. We picked out metal caskets. The first two pictures are my casket and the top of the vault. The third and fourth pictures are Claude's casket and top of the vault. I did ask if they had a purple casket. Claude rolled his eyes. He was amused.
By the end of our visit, we set up that I would text Roger a copy of a check. He would do an electronic transfer of funds and all of the things we could pay for ahead with the funeral home would be covered. We determined we would be buried at the military cemetery in Williamstown. We next need to meet with them.
After all of that negotiations, we went for another biscuit to discuss what had transpired and how we felt. Claude expressed it as a feeling of relief.
In the evening, we had purchased tickets to see a Florence Ya'lls baseball game. Their season opened this week. It was cloudy and felt like a rain storm was coming in but the rain was not due until the morning. We each took a jacket which we would put on about the 4th inning. We ate our traditional ball park food. I had my nachos and a Mountain Dew. Claude had a hot dog, a hamburger and diet coke. The Graeter's ice cream truck was parked in the food area. Claude got us each a scoop of ice cream about the 4th inning. That is why the need to the jackets at that time.
The joy of a Friday night at the Florence Ya'lls is the fireworks after the game. The fireworks are donated and a local business sponsors the event. They are always fun to see.















It seems to be a longer game that usual. Our team lost by one point. But they all played hard and well for an very enjoyable game. Great evening at the ballpark.
Saturday, May 16th, Claude and I slept in and determined we would have a quiet day at home. Claude would make a pot of chili to compliment the rain we were having. I started this Blog entry and got through labeling those pictures, I walked my treadmill, I cleaned out my eMails and text messages.
Joel was up in the morning and enjoyed chocolate ice cream and banana for lunch. Bet he was happy to have some food, even if it wasn't Taco Bell.
About 6pm he was finally back home in Muskegon. Claude and I sent soft foods through Amazon. The girls drew on the boxes to welcome their brother home. Drew wrote Welcome Home Joel on the front of the boxes and the girls colored on them. They missed their brother. Joel continued to cling to his Paw Patrol but was happy to get home to Bell (Taco Bell). Our boy was on the mend!! Yeah!! Children are resilient creatures. I remember Nissa playing with a baton when she was pre-school age and we lived in an apartment complex in Denver. The rubber tip was off the end she was playing with and using as a microphone. One of the other kids was running and knocked her down allowing the end of the baton to ram inside her mouth. I found a very bloody child with the roof of her mouth hanging down. Away to the doctor we went. He checked it and said to simply let it heal on its own. He told me the mouth was the fastest healing part of the body. I hope that applies to broken jaw bones on rowdy little boys.
Sunday, May 17th, I was asked to say closing prayer in Sunday School class.
Claude and I enjoyed Arby's for lunch. This was followed by a nap for Claude and my having time to play on my laptop. I edited my Chair Yoga document for future use. I worked on the data we need to have on hand for funeral preparation. I walked the treadmill.
When Claude woke up, he was sure he needed ice cream. A quick trip to Dairy Queen helped with that need. I had my usual small strawberry sundae. Very refreshing as the temperature outside was at 90 degrees. Yike!
In the evening we watched West Wing and I crocheted some more. Here a picture of my progress on this fun afghan pattern. Nelson's favorite colors are red and blue.
It was an good week, an interesting week. What in the world with this next week hold.