Sunday, April 25, 2021

A Good Week...

Monday, April 19, 2021, I received a telephone call from our daughter, Nissa. She is having some surgery and just needed to talk. If feels so good to be 70 years old and your daughter, who just turned 50, still needs and wants to talk with her Mother. Grateful for each of my kids. 

The rest of Monday I would spend ordering birthday gifts for our little Emelia, who is to turn two years old the end of April, doing laundry, and crocheting. We did pause to drive to Georgetown to fill the birdfeeder and take Papa a treat. 

Tuesday, April 20, 2021, was my day to take Papa for another drive. This time we drove toward Paris, Kentucky on what is labeled as a scenic drive on the maps. It is that indeed. Then we drove from Paris toward Lexington and found Ironworks Pike and followed it all the way past the Kentucky Horse Park and Georgetown to the road to Frankfort. There we turned and drove back to Georgetown with a stop at Burger King for a chocolate shake for Papa to take to the nursing home. Papa loved his drive in the country. He has more periods of time where he is quiet. Very un-Papa-like. I find myself looking to see if he has fallen asleep. But, he is just being quiet. So grateful we have reached a point with the pandemic where I can get him out again. Now, I just need to get into his room and clean up all the reading material he has stacked up from the past year without me sorting and rotating things. 

I walked around my home and took some pictures of springtime on our hill in Sadieville. 
We had a forecast for snow during the night. We had been having such lovely spring weather. I even wore my capris a few days. It got up to 70 degrees while Papa and I were on our drive. So, having snow forecast for the night time seemed a little weird. Sure enough, Claude and I got up at 3:30am to go to the bathroom. I looked out the window to our deck and it was covered in snow and clearly, even in the dark, more snow was coming down. As Claude came back to bed, I told him he needed to look out the window!

Wednesday, April 21, 2021, I awoke and promptly went to the window to see in the light what came down during the night. We had a most beautiful layer of snow over everything. It was wet, heavy snow and this was proven by the tree in our front yard with branches hanging down toward the ground. Here are a few pictures of the contrast between the pictures the day before at 70 degrees.
We had errands to run. The roads were okay. Into Lexington we headed. I needed more crochet thread, which I usually get from the Georgetown Walmart, but they didn't have any. Claude was taking me to the Lexington Walmart. Then back to Georgetown to pick up some supplies at Lowe's for him. By the time we returned to Sadieville the snow was all gone and the sun was out!

At about 8:30pm we were watching television. I was crocheting and Claude was coloring. Then Claude said, "I think there is something going on outside." I got up and looked on the deck. There were little white pellets all over the deck and it was coming down hard. The first two pictures are from the back of our home. It was cloudy and really dropping pellets. The second two pictures are from the front yard. Ironically, the sun was setting and you could see it in the distance trying to make a final show before going down. It didn't last long. We sure had an interesting weather day!
Thursday, April 22, 2021, was a day to bake. I volunteered to make all the cookies for dessert for The Gathering Place in Georgetown. It is a men's shelter. Our congregation takes lunch in the last Friday of each month. I needed four dozen cookies each individually bagged. With Covid-19 The Gathering Place puts the lunches together. We just make individual servings for them to do that. I baked a batch of chocolate chip cookies and a batch of Snickerdoodles. Each of these recipes can yield up to five dozen cookies. My hope was to have a few extra to share with Papa and for Claude and I to enjoy. I bagged 50 bags with one of each cookie. I had three Snickerdoodles left. 

I would spend my afternoon scanning old files from my grandparents on my mother's side. Then crocheting in the evening.

I want to share a couple of the treasures I found. First, a note from my father to my mother. It was dated on the back, June 9, 1980. That is my mother's birthday. I would have been close to 30 years old at this point and living in Denver, Colorado. 
The second is a card made by my mother when she was a little girl for her mother. I found it interesting she spelled her middle name 'May'. All of my life, I have seen her spell it 'Mae'. I have no date for this card. 
Friday, April 23, 2021, we would head to Georgetown at 11am. We needed to stop and pick up the food from two other ladies on our way into town. Then we dropped off the food at The Gathering Place. There were several men and one woman waiting at the door to the kitchen. These guys are always for kind and friendly. I got out and opened the back of the Jeep. They were right there to take the food into the kitchen for me. We passed pleasant words with each other. I told Claude as we left that I always learn from these men that we can share joy no matter our circumstances. I always leave feeling uplifted and grateful for my blessings. 

We took Papa his treat, got us a biscuit and headed back home. I would again scan and crochet and add a little reading to the rest of my day. 

There is a new home being built in Eagle Bend. It will face Edgewater. We are enjoying the progress on it. I will share pictures of that progress because it is fun to watch things being created. This day they put up the framework to pour concrete basement walls. 
Saturday, April 24, 2021, we would participate in the Lexington North Stake BillionGraves activity. We have the BillionGraves app is our each of our telephones. You simply set your phone so that locations show up. Then you go to a cemetery and take pictures of the headstones at the cemetery. We have identified cemeteries and where they have headstones that have never been photographed. Our stake had set up with three military cemeteries in the area for pictures be taken in them. We all woke up to a forecast of 100% chance of rain. It wasn't supposed to begin until later so we hurried out at 8:30am.

Our first stop was in Georgetown. We found a cemetery that didn't even show up on the BillionGraves app. The name on the cemetery is the Old Georgetown Cemetery. It is mostly a fenced off grassy area. There are a few rows of visible headstones. Claude went to one side and went to the other and we would meet in the middle. One had to be very careful when walking as there were holes under the grass where headstones had stood. The grass appears even but it is not always so. One of the markers I saw had a death date of 1838. There were several that were clearly military people. These markers had growth and what I will call calcification on the concrete so they were impossible to read. Our instruction is to take the picture anyway. If someone is looking and know their relative is buried there, the location on the picture will confirm it was there. BillionGraves has the ability to clear up some of these pictures and get the data off the headstone. I took this picture of the back fence of the cemetery. There was a big old tree with two markers under it. 
There is a solemnness in walking over this grass and knowing there are graves under you feet that you can't tell are there. The markers sometimes faced one way and the one next to it faced another way. Not sure if the markers were moved, or fell over and when put back up right were put facing the wrong way. Lots of things to think about.

Next we drove to Frankfort. The BillionGraves app showed a small cemetery in downtown Frankfort where no pictures had been taken. We thought we might do all of that one. Alas, when we found the location, a parking lot was built where it was previously located. No wonder no pictures were taken!

We drove down to Sunset Memorial Gardens next. This is where my mother is buried and where we will bury my father. We took pictures of their gravesites a year ago. However, none of the other headstones in their section of the cemetery have had pictures taken. We did this entire section. Then the rain started to come. We headed back to Sadieville. This picture is the view from my mothers gravesite. I find cemeteries a pleasant place to be. Quiet and thoughtful.
The Roper's had a early birthday for Emelia. This is a picture of our Emelia on her bean bag chair from Claude and me. It seems Raelyn had a bean bag chair. Emelia wanted to sit on it with her. Raelyn finally went to Katelyn and explained that Sissy had gotten too big to share her bean bag chair. Now they will each have one. I think Emelia is happy with her bean bag chair.
Sunday, April 25, 2021, we enjoyed Sacrament Meeting via Zoom. This Sunday Elizabeth Parret reported on her mission. Elizabeth Parret served her mission in Layton, Utah. She focused her talk on “Let God Prevail”. This is a phrase repeated by Pres. Russell M. Nelson, our Prophet. Liz shared how she had learned the importance of this principle as she served her mission. She shared and example of an investigator who was very excited about her visits with the missionaries. But, when push came to shove, and it was time to decide, she chose to stop seeing the missionaries. Liz said this was an example to her of someone who could have but chose not to “Let God Prevail” in their life. Then Liz shared a story of a young man who did just the opposite and the blessings the Gospel were in his life after joining the Church. I say a prayer to Heavenly Father very evening and I always include a prayer for our missionaries in the field. I ask for three things. First, that they will protected from harm and danger. Second, that they will be healthy, particularly from Covid-19. Third, I ask that their testimonies will be strengthened by their studying and learning the principles and ordinances of the Gospel. That they will learn as the watch the good and the bad in peoples lives as they accept and live or deny the blessings of membership in the Church. Liz sharing her testimony today was like Heavenly Father telling me the things I have quietly prayed for our missionaries was being answered in a very positive way in Liz’s missionary experience. It was a good talk.

Then Claude and I spent about an hour reading and studying Doctrine & Covenants 40-44. We each read 10 verses and we pause and share things we underlined or found interesting for whatever reason. Then we open our Come, Follow Me manual and read and study in it. As Claude was reading, he came to the word ‘prophesy’ twice and read it so the ‘sy’ was pronounced with a long ‘e’ sound. For years I have seen this word spelled ‘prophesy’ or ‘prophecy’. I have surely used them interchangeably. This is wrong. Today, we paused and I looked up their pronunciation and meaning.  ‘Prophesy’ is pronounced with a long ‘I’ sound at the end and it means ‘saying that a specified thing will happen in the future’. The word ‘Prophecy’ is pronounced long ‘e’ sound at the end and it means ‘a prediction’. So the word ‘Prophesy’ is to say the thing and the word ‘Prophecy’ is the thing. I felt so enlightened. Such a little thing but I love that we learn no matter how old we are or how long we have studied.

After an unsuccessful attempt to participate in the Zoom Relief Society meeting, Claude and I drove into Lexington for a burger. They have a new Cook Out Burgers there. We really like that place in Frankfort. We found it. The food was good but the service was not. We learned we like Cook Out but we'll drive to Frankfort when we want it. Claude turned to me after we finished eating in the Jeep and said, "I don't feel satisfied." I said, "Do you need another burger?" He thought he might. He has been doing a test trial on chicken sandwiches. One of the places he needed to try one was Popeye's Chicken. We drove to Popeye's and Claude got a chicken sandwich. I learned they had chocolate Beignet's. They were out of those but I shall store that in my memory bank for another time. I ordered a side order of red beans and rice. Yummy!! We left satisfied with our 'meals'!! 

As we entered Eagle Bend, the concrete forms were down and they were leveling out places in the poured concrete on the newest home in Eagle Bend.
Backtracking a bit. I received pictures from Andie that I had a hard time viewing. They were shared with Google Photos but my BellSouth eMail address was used. Google only likes a Gmail address. I did get to them and saved these of our Bailey at her Track Meet. Limited attendees due to Covid-19 prevent us from attending these functions now. Grateful for pictures!! I have these dated April 17th which is the day Andie sent them originally. That is probably the day of the meet.
And that is my week in review. Good week.

Sunday, April 18, 2021

Catchin' Up...

Wednesday, April 7th, was our son-in-law, Todd's, birthday. He is married to Nissa, our eldest. I posted this on Facebook for Todd's birthday.

"Claude Christensen and I want to wish our son-in-law a very Happy Birthday  today. He loves Michigan and is a most excellent tour guide of that State. He loves his Green Bay Packers. He loves and is devoted to his family. And he is just an all round good guy. Happy Birthday Todd Tyler. We love ya bunches!!"

Saturday, April 10th, as we drove back into Eagle Bend, Claude paused the car so I could take a quick pictures. It appears someone is building a home on one of the empty lots in Eagle Bend. As of today they have added a lot of rock to form the foundation of this home. It will be fun to watch them build it.
Now for one of life's little ironies. As I find things that will make nice Christmas gifts through the year, I go ahead and purchase them, wrap them, keep a grid with what I have purchased on my Google Drive. This helps Christmas not be so hectic and it spreads out all that Christmas buying. Claude and I watched a documentary by Ken Burns on Ernest Hemingway. It was a three part deal and was excellent. Our son-in-law, Todd, loves Ernest Hemingway. They made a DVD of the program. I sent a text to Nissa to be sure they were DVD capable. She said they were. So I ordered the DVD on April 10th. April 12th I received an eMail saying the DVD was shipped and giving me a tracking number. April 14th the package arrived at the Indianapolis FedEx facility at 11:55pm. April 15th there was a shooting and eight people were killed at that FedEx facility. Now the tracking tells me No scheduled delivery date available at this time. No concerns as the package is a Christmas present for pity sakes. It is such a sad event to happen. 

Monday, April 12th, while driving into Georgetown, Claude stopped and parked the Jeep so I could walk down a bit of Hwy 32 in Sadieville and take pictures of the red bud trees in full bloom. They grow randomly through the wooded areas. Sometimes it is just a little tuft of color. Sometimes there is a full spray of color across a section. When I got to where Claude parked the Jeep, he had picked out a couple of spots I should take a picture of. Enjoy!!
Tuesday, April 13th, I was able to take Papa for a second car ride. Before I can take him, I have to go through the check-in procedures to be sure I am okay around residents. You stand at a monitor and answer some questions. Then the camera on the monitor takes your temperature. If everything is okay, you get a sticker that says "Pass" to put on your clothes. This lets the staff know you are okay to be in the building. Glen Redmon was standing in the lobby as I did this. Glen is a pastor for a little church in Stamping Ground. He is also the chaplain and a Quality of Life leader for the nursing home. I have known Glen since January of 2006. As I put on my "Pass" sticker, I said to Glen, "Do you suppose this is what the judgement will be like? Will we answer some questions and then get a "Pass" sticker if we did it right?" We both got a chuckle out of that.
For this drive I took Papa up Hwy 25 to the end of the new by-pass extension. We drove that to Hwy 460 and then across 460 to Frankfort. My goal was for us to see the flowers blooming at the Frankfort Cemetery. We did a 'cemetery tour' in 2018 and 2019 in the spring as all the flowers and trees bloom. We would go to Frankfort and check the blossoms there followed by a drive through the Lexington Cemetery. Papa loved these drives with the blossoms and all the very old headstones. There is something peaceful about a cemetery. I took these pictures of the Frankfort Cemetery. We did no go to the Lexington Cemetery this year.
After the cemetery, we drove south on Hwy 60 to Sunset Memorial Gardens. This is where Mimi is buried and Papa will be buried there beside her. I wanted to be sure her flowers still looked good. Papa was happy to see this place again. I pointed out where he will lay beside Mom. He was pleased, again, to have that in his mind. He likes the views in this little cemetery and he loves the big tree they will rest under. Papa commented again that he never imagined he would be buried in Kentucky. He was sure it would be Louisiana. I told him that to me, where you are buried is not as important as that it is a safe, nice place for my remains to rest till the resurrection. Papa said, "I never thought of it like that." I know these things roll around in his mind. With his memory so poor, it helps to give him some peace about these things for a brief period of time.
I am pleased to say that I now have a standing appointment each Tuesday at 1pm to take Papa for a drive. Please join me in praying for good weather every Tuesday. So happy I can now see Papa in person. His laughter as we drove was a pure delight. 

Thursday, April 15th, these pictures were taken of Raelyn learning to play soccer. This is her first foray into team sports. I loved the exuberance with which she did her warm up exercises. Emelia is in middle and last pictures. 
After Katelyn sent these pictures, I shared one of Bailey when she tried out soccer and suggested Katelyn share the picture of Bailey with Raelyn. Raelyn loved it. It is fun to keep the cousins close even though miles separate them.
The other picture I received from Katelyn, was Raelyn in her school class. They were studying worms. Please note how Raelyn in right in the thick of things! I responded to Katelyn: "This just brought back a cute memory. When you and Nissa lived with us and Grampa would so on a business trip, he would ask you what he should bring back to you. You always said, "Erms!" You loved gummy worms. You should share that story with Rae!" Katelyn assured me she would buy some gummy worms on her way home and share the story with Raelyn.
Friday, April 16th, was the birthday of a dear friend from our Denver days. Cindy Axtell Misenar had three children my kids age. She had a boy and then two girls. I had two girls and then a boy. Cindy and I went to Church together. I was Relief Society President. Cindy was my secretary. I came to love this sweet lady as though she was my sister. Her hubby, Russ, had Hodgkin's disease. Russ is why I sometimes call Claude, Big Guy. Russ was not a large man and the cancer only made him wither away. He would call Claude, Big Guy. It stuck and I have used that phrase ever since. He would pass away just before we moved from Denver to Maryland. Cindy and I did lots of things together with our kids. They took swimming lessons at the same time. Carla asked for pictures any of Cindy's friends had for a virtual birthday celebration she was hosting for her mother. I only found one picture. It was taken after Russ passed away and was the age her kids were when we left Denver. We were all too poor to be taking lots of pictures to be developed. Cellphones had not been invented with their cameras included. So, we sent this picture to Carla. Left to right: Cindy, Heidi, Russ and Carla. All kids are grown, married and have children. 
This was also the first time for us to clean the Church in over a year! The congregation is split up into teams with a team leader. Claude and I had been the team leaders for several years. Each team has about three times a year that they are responsible to clean the Church building. This is usually done on a Friday or Saturday so it is fresh for Church on Sunday. We seemed to always have February, June and October of each year. Then the Covid-19 pandemic hit and the Church was actually closed for a while. So we had no cleaning assignments and were asked not to use the building at all. Eventually they started in-person services with many restrictions and suggestions that those over 65 at higher risk attend via a Zoom meeting. Now we are allowed to use the building for limited groups of things. So, we need to get back in once a week and clean the building. New teams have been formed and Claude and I are no longer the team leader. We went Friday evening to do our part of the cleaning. Claude did the chapels and I cleaned the four bathrooms. Patty Harmon came and cleaned all the door handles and picked up the trash in all the classrooms that can be used now. 

Saturday, April 17th, I attended a baby shower. Haven't attended one of those for a very long time. This was for Amanda Owens and Noe. They are having a baby boy they will name Allen. Amanda is the daughter of my dear friend, Lisa Adams. Lisa was my counselor when I was Stake Relief Society President. It was a really good shower for Amanda and Noe.
And, Aubrey sent this wonderful picture of Nelson catching a fish! What a great grin on this boy!!
Sunday, April 18th, is Jacob's birthday. Jacob is our youngest child and he turns 46 years old. Man...where did that time go!! Looking forward to a phone call with him this evening. I posted this on Facebook this morning.

"I sat at my laptop Friday morning and looked through pictures of the first decade of Jake Christensen's life. I am sharing some of those with you today because...today is Jake's birthday. Claude Christensen and I love having Jake for a son. He has grown into such a great young man on so many levels. I had the privilege of scan
ning his journals and pictures during this pandemic. I marveled at all his life has brought to him. Happy Birthday, Jake!! May this year and all future years continue to bring you good experiences. Love Ya Bunches!!"
Our family is still playing a daily Trivial Pursuit question. I post a new one each morning from our 1981 Trivial Pursuit game. They try to guess the answer throughout the day. Today's question was special. Here is what I posted on our family Facebook page:

This question was saved for today because today is Jake's birthday. Jake loved Shakespeare. Give us the answer Jake! (Katelyn, watch and learn a little more about Shakespearean things.😉😉)
Art & Literature: Who is the clown in Shakespeare's Henry IV and The Merry Wives of Windsor?

The comment about Katelyn is because she asked Jake at one point if something was written in Shakespearean. Needless to say, this will be a running joke for the rest of Katelyn's life. 

Jake did answer correctly with "That would be Falstaff."

I shared some research I did about Falstaff beer which I remembered being advertised years ago. 
"A little history about Falstaff Beer. The Falstaff Brewing Corporation was a major American brewery located in St. Louis, Missouri. With roots in the 1838 Lemp Brewery of St. Louis, the company was renamed after the Shakespearean character Sir John Falstaff in 1903. Production peaked in 1965 with 7,010,218 barrels brewed, and then dropped 70% in the next 10 years.[1] While its smaller labels linger on today, its main label Falstaff Beer went out of production in 2005.[2] The rights to the brand are currently owned by Pabst Brewing Company. The Lemps chose the Shakespearean character for the name of their new beer due to Sir John Falstaff's reputation as a jolly, fun-loving knight."
Then Jake share this quote: "If to be old and merry be a sin, then many an old host that I know is damn'd." Sir John Falstaff, Henry IV Part 1, Act II, Scene 4

When Jake was in High School, his only request for Christmas one year was a book of the Complete Works of William Shakespeare. He received that requested gift. Love our son!! Love the little bits of learning we are doing with this Trivial Pursuit question each day.